Have you stopped kissing your partner? I mean really kissing - not the hello or goodbye peck that often passes for kissing in the comfortable stage of a relationship. If passionate, make- you-weak-in-the-knees kissing is only a dim memory from your early courtship, it's time to stage a revival. Real kisses are not only an easy path to seduction, but also make your partner feel important and desired. Not to mention what long, lingering kisses can do for your own libido.
So, brush your teeth, gargle a bit, and surprise your lover with some old-fashioned necking. Start slowly - you don't have to drive your tongue down your lover's throat right away. A few soft kisses on the face, neck, and ears will help build anticipation. Then some gentle kisses on the lips, followed by a gradual increase in tongue action, followed by........... Use your imagination.
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Sunday, August 19, 2007
Wednesday, August 15, 2007
Sex Appointments
Does the idea of scheduling time for sex seem crazy? OK, maybe not crazy, but forced and unromantic? You probably remember the days when sex was spontaneous and carefree, and you and your partner were so hot for each other that finding the time for sex was not much of a problem. But life happens and desire fades, and now there never seems to be a time when one of you is not too tired, too busy, or just plain not in the mood.
Making sex appointments with your partner is a way of saying that you both value the sexual part of your relationship and aren't willing to leave it to chance. Far from being unromantic, setting aside special time for sex gives you the opportunity to anticipate and build the mood so that it's more than the ordinary, same old sexual routine that may have lost its zing a long time ago. A steamy note left beside your partner's coffee cup in the morning, a sizzling phone call during the day, or a suggestive email promising an evening of erotic pleasures can go a long way toward keeping your scheduled time together hot AND romantic. You schedule everything else in your life - why not make an appointment with your partner today and let them know that sex is just as important to you as your 7:00 kick-boxing class.
Making sex appointments with your partner is a way of saying that you both value the sexual part of your relationship and aren't willing to leave it to chance. Far from being unromantic, setting aside special time for sex gives you the opportunity to anticipate and build the mood so that it's more than the ordinary, same old sexual routine that may have lost its zing a long time ago. A steamy note left beside your partner's coffee cup in the morning, a sizzling phone call during the day, or a suggestive email promising an evening of erotic pleasures can go a long way toward keeping your scheduled time together hot AND romantic. You schedule everything else in your life - why not make an appointment with your partner today and let them know that sex is just as important to you as your 7:00 kick-boxing class.
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