Beating Fatigue

Fatigue is one of the biggest deterrents to an active sex life. Of course, getting more sleep and simplifying your life would create more energy for sex, but since that probably isn't going to happen any time soon for a lot of you, I wanted to suggest some other methods for standing up to fatigue.

• Be open to making out without the expectation of it leading to intercourse. Preconceived notions of what sex has to be can make it feel like too much effort.
• During the week when you're both tired, try alternating who gets to climax. One night it's your partner's turn, and the next time, it's all about you. When it's your turn, you'll get to relax and just enjoy the sensations without having to do a thing.
• Shower before you go to bed. It will help wake you up and make you feel more like getting up close and personal.
• Turn off the late show and get to bed an hour earlier than usual.
• If you have the flexibility, meet your partner at home on a lunch break. A nooner can leave you refreshed and energized for the rest of your work day.

The important thing is not to cave in to fatigue on a regular basis. If you get creative, your sex life can thrive regardless of your busy schedule and short nights.