A quick glance at the relationship section of any bookstore would indicate that a lot of people struggle to get what they want from their partner. Maybe that's because they're not looking at how they make it hard for their partner to give them what they want.
I know it's a lot easier to focus on your partner's faults than to turn the magnifying glass on yourself, but the good news is that you have a lot more control over what you do than what your partner does. The even better news is that when you transform yourself into a partner who's easy to love, you're a lot more likely to get what you want from your partner.
Is it sex you want? Then stop pushing, pressuring, criticizing, and complaining and start giving your partner what he/she wants. Is it more emotional engagement you want? Then stop rejecting your partner's physical advances every time he or she tries to get close and become more affectionate. Being more aware of how you make it hard for your partner to love you can create new possibilities for getting the love you want.
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