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Wednesday, January 21, 2009

The Best Positions

Yesterday I talked about the limitations of intercourse in producing female orgasms. Today I want to mention a few positions that are more orgasm-friendly, which are generally those that allow for more stimulation of the clitoris or create more pressure on the G-spot.

When a woman is on top during intercourse, she has more control over the action and can position herself for maximum clitoral contact. She can move in a style and a rhythm that is more conducive to increasing her arousal, which is ultimately more likely to produce orgasm.

Another position, often referred to as the 'rising missionary', involves the woman being on her back with her feet on her partner's shoulders. If her partner enters her from a kneeling position, he can manually stroke her clitoris while achieving a deep penetration that puts pressure on the G-spot.

And then there's the thing called 'coital alignment technique' (CAT) which involves a man positioning the base of his penis and pelvic bone so that the clitoris receives constant stimulation during intercourse. Then, instead of thrusting, it's a rocking motion that's called for, which creates steady pressure on the area between the woman's pubic bone and the vagina.

Even with these positions, most women will still require some foreplay prior to intercourse if they're going to get to the big "O". It's worth doing some experimenting.

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