I'm sometimes asked if it's possible to have a great sex life with someone you've been with for 10, 20, 30 years or more. The short answer to that question is YES. The long answer has to do with modifying your expectations and identifying the sexual benefits of being with a long-term partner.
When a relationship is new, the sex is intense and exciting without any effort at all. In an ongoing relationship, there's a different kind of potential. Sex can develop a greater intimacy and comfort, which may even enhance the probability of women having regular orgasms during sexual encounters. But that doesn't mean there's no longer any excitement. Couples who make sex a priority can keep passion alive by occasionally introducing some unpredictability and novelty into their sex lives.
In a long-term relationship, sex is an important way to stay close and connected. Sometimes it will be great and sometimes it will be mediocre, but it's all good when you focus on the intimacy.
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