It is apparent that a lot of men go after the clitoris with a vengeance during foreplay. The clitoris is the most sensitive part of the female body, and a lot of women experience pain rather than pleasure when men start rubbing it too soon or too roughly. Maybe men assume that the greater the friction, the greater the pleasure, but the clitoris requires gentle handling.
It has been suggested that reducing the force of stimulation to one-fifth or even one-tenth of what is normally used is just about right. And just because a woman starts responding does not mean that it's ok to immediately begin ramping up the pressure and speed. The best way to stimulate the clitoris is to do it gently from start to finish, only speeding up right before she climaxes.
Women need to be very specific in giving feedback on how they want their clitoris to be touched. Otherwise, their partner may give what they, themselves, want to receive.
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