If you want to maximize the interplay of sexual energy between you and your partner, you probably need to learn a lot more about sexual anatomy, your partner's erogenous zones, and specific techniques for bringing your partner pleasure. Then you need plenty of practice.
Most people who've been sexually active for decades tend to dismiss the idea that they have anymore to learn about being a better lover. But unfortunately, few lovers have ever taken the time or put in sufficient effort to develop real lovemaking skills. They've just done what has come naturally or what they've picked up from a few magazines or porn videos.
Sex is really basic if you're only interested in reproduction, but if you're interested in developing the sexual skills that will add joy and closeness to your relationship and bring more happiness into your life, you need training. You can start by picking up several books on sexual techniques. Then start experimenting, open up a dialogue with your partner, and practice, practice, practice. It's an investment of time and energy that has an amazing payoff.
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