One of the barriers to pleasure for women during foreplay is the pressure they often experience to reach orgasm. A typical pattern for a man who wants to make sure his partner is sexually satisfied is to stimulate her to the point of climax before he penetrates and gets lost in the pursuit of his own climax.
OK - at least he's concerned about his partner's satisfaction. But the problem is that trying to force an orgasm creates too much pressure on the partner and works against her need to relax and let it happen. Men need to focus on giving their partner pleasure rather than giving her an orgasm.
Bottom line, everyone is responsible for their own orgasm. All we're responsible for in creating a mutually satisfying sexual relationship is giving and receiving pleasure and intimacy.
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