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Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Self-Pleasuring

In yesterday's post, I shared the results of a study on vibrator use that indicated vibrators are commonly used by couples as well as by individuals. Just to be clear - I wasn't suggesting there's anything wrong with solo use of a vibrator.

Masturbation has gotten a bad rap in our culture and is still a topic that gets little discussion or attention. Not that there aren't plenty of practitioners! The vast majority of men masturbate, and according to several studies, around 60-65% of women have masturbated at some point in their lives.

It's a shame that more women aren't getting the benefits of self-stimulation because it's a great way for women to learn what feels good and what doesn't. When women learn how to please themselves, their sexual enjoyment increases along with their ability to reach orgasm with their partner. And when women find themselves without a partner, they can stay connected to their sexuality through self-pleasuring. Self-pleasuring - sounds better than masturbation, doesn't it? If you're not already skilled in pleasuring yourself, you might just want to give it a try.

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