Sex Noises

How loud you are when you make love sometimes has to do with where you are and who might overhear, but there's also a great deal of variation in how vocal people are during sex. There are the really silent types who not only don't utter a word during foreplay but don't even allow a moan to escape their lips when they're coming. Then there's the lover who talks all the way through it and then wakes up the neighbors when reaching the big "O". Most people fall somewhere in between.

Do you like your partner to talk to you during sex? Does it turn you on when they announce they're about to come? Do you like to make a lot of noise? If you and your partner are compatible in your vocalizations, that's great - if not, you need to have a conversation in which you each share what you like and what you don't like about the soundtrack accompanying your lovemaking. It's an important piece of sexual satisfaction.