Maybe you want to have a good sexual relationship with your partner, but you’re one of those people who just never finds yourself ‘in the mood’. What can you do to jumpstart your sex drive?
First you need to decide that you’re going to make sex a higher priority than watching reruns of CSI. Put it on your to-do list. Unless you decide that sex is important in your relationship, you’ll get around to it about as often as you get around to cleaning the coils on your refrigerator.
Once you’ve cleared some space in your head for sex, actively encourage sexual thoughts - like fantasizing about an encounter with the UPS guy who delivered your mini-blinds (guys: substitute the long-legged brunette you noticed roller-blading in the park). Fantasy can get the sexual juices flowing and stir sexual interest in your partner. Pay attention to any spontaneous sexual thoughts you may have and turn up the volume on them. Make it a point to mentally replay favorite sexual memories and adventures you’ve experienced with your partner. Fire up your imagination by watching sexy movies and reading erotic books. Your brain is the best friend you’ve got to help you start up a stalled sex drive, so develop a mental triptik to the places that turn you on and get going.
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