After talking to your partner about ways to improve your sex life, be patient. Let your partner know how much it means that they are willing to make your sexual relationship a higher priority. If your partner doesn't experience spontaneous feelins of desire, they have to be very intentional about creating space and energy for sex to occur. That requires a serious commitment. Don't over-react to relapses and look for opportunities to reinforce positive changes, no matter how small.
Above all, don't return to pressure tactics or put-downs. Nothing will shut down your partner's interest faster than being made to feel not good enough. With enough pressure you might get some obligatory sex, but that's usually quite a bit less than satisfying. Aim for quality over quantity, and you may even get more of the latter.
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