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Monday, October 27, 2008

Defining Infidelity

In today's world, infidelity has become a little more complicated to define. It used to be pretty simple - infidelity was when someone engaged in intercourse with another person other than his or her partner. But now there are lots of different ways to cross couple boundaries without actually having sex with someone else.

Is it infidelity when someone engages in cybersex, online sexual chatting, emotional involvement with someone online, keeping secrets from one's partner, flirting? How about just secretly viewing online pornography? When are you being unfaithful to your partner?

Many therapists consider infidelity to include any other relationship that drains energy from the couple and contains an element of secrecy. What's your definition? It may be an important conversation to have with your partner.

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