Do you wait for your partner to initiate sex, then get you in the mood, and finally 'give' you an orgasm? If you're giving the responsibility for your sex life to your partner, you're giving up a lot of power.
Try taking ownership of your sexuality. If you're usually passive, ask your partner to switch roles with you for the next two weeks and commit to being the one who decides when, where, and how the action goes down. Do exactly what you need to do to maximize your pleasure, whether that means starting the action with a slow dance, using a vibrator, being on top during intercourse, or extending foreplay. Ask your partner for what you need from him.
Taking charge in the sexual arena greatly increases your odds of having a satisfying sex life and takes an awful lot of pressure off your mate. It may just increase your desire, as well.
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