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Wednesday, August 15, 2007

Sex Appointments

Does the idea of scheduling time for sex seem crazy? OK, maybe not crazy, but forced and unromantic? You probably remember the days when sex was spontaneous and carefree, and you and your partner were so hot for each other that finding the time for sex was not much of a problem. But life happens and desire fades, and now there never seems to be a time when one of you is not too tired, too busy, or just plain not in the mood.

Making sex appointments with your partner is a way of saying that you both value the sexual part of your relationship and aren't willing to leave it to chance. Far from being unromantic, setting aside special time for sex gives you the opportunity to anticipate and build the mood so that it's more than the ordinary, same old sexual routine that may have lost its zing a long time ago. A steamy note left beside your partner's coffee cup in the morning, a sizzling phone call during the day, or a suggestive email promising an evening of erotic pleasures can go a long way toward keeping your scheduled time together hot AND romantic. You schedule everything else in your life - why not make an appointment with your partner today and let them know that sex is just as important to you as your 7:00 kick-boxing class.

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