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Sunday, August 12, 2007

What's Wrong with a Thong?

I received an email from a man complaining that his wife refuses to wear the sexy lingerie he recently gave her as a gift. "She thinks she doesn't have the body for it and would look ridiculous. But I don't care if her body isn't perfect - I think she'd look really hot! I don't get it."

First, it's possible that the wife felt like her husband's 'gift' was more for his gratification than hers. Sexual gifts are great if you're in the market for them, but otherwise they can feel like pressure. A better option would be for the couple to go shopping for lingerie together - then his wife could pick out something that she'd actually be likely to wear. Maybe not a thong - but a thong stuck in the back of the drawer isn't doing anybody any good!

A word to women: Men are visual creatures, and it's a real turn-on for them to see you decked out in sexy attire. You don't need to have the body of one of the Victoria Secret models in order to light a fire in the bedroom. If thongs aren't your style, don't let that stop you from experimenting until you find something that brings out the siren in you. You may discover that your partner is not the only one who gets turned on.

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