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Sunday, September 16, 2007

The Eyes Have It!

In an earlier post, I talked about the tendency to save our best look for the outside world while our partner gets the dregs. That's a big mistake because our vision is very powerful in stirring up feelings of love and lust.

Do you put some effort into looking good for your partner? You did in the beginning - maybe it's time to bring back a little of that special attention you invested to elicit your partner's loving gaze. Listen to your partner's preferences in clothing and sometimes wear what they want you to wear. Display pictures of you and your partner embracing. Look deeply into your partner's eyes. Keep your eyes open while making love. Take time to visually appreciate your partner's body. Flirt with your eyes. Make eye contact when talking with your partner. Do a slow strip-tease for your partner on your next sex date.

Try making your own list of ways to maximize your sense of sight to enhance your love life.

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