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Sunday, December 2, 2007

Saving Some Sex for the Holidays

The holidays are upon us. Does this season of good will leave you grumpy and irritable and more likely to jump down your partner's throat than to jump their bones? Welcome to the club!

Women, particularly, are prone to overload during the holidays and often experience resentment toward their partner over carrying a disproportionate burden of the added responsibilities. Women are more likely to be the ones writing cards, decorating, shopping, baking, wrapping, etc. The exhaustion factor combined with resentment when the tasks aren't evenly distributed add up to a deadly month for desire. Does it have to be this way?

Think about the changes you can make in your holiday season to reduce both your exhaustion and your resentment. Pare down, ask for more help from your partner, schedule some special couple time along with your holiday festivities. Consider how the gift of sex compares to the gifts neatly wrapped under the tree.

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