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Thursday, April 17, 2008

"Come on....."

Women often ask me why men are so "hung-up" on oral sex - which usually means they want to know why guys want it so much. The question may reflect more discomfort with the act than real curiosity, but I'll start with exploring the latter.

It's really not surprising that oral sex ranks high on the list of most men's favorite sexual activities. The lips, mouth, and tongue are well-suited for stimulation of the sensitive nerve endings of the penis. In addition to feeling great, receiving oral sex provides exciting visuals and affords men the luxury of a more passive sexual role. What's not to like?

Some women feel powerful in pleasuring their partner orally and find their own passion building as they increase their partner's arousal. Other women feel subservient when performing oral sex or are simply uncomfortable doing it. Tomorrow I'll talk more about that discomfort.

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