Good Energy

When do you feel sexy? If you're a guy, it's probably when you're feeling confident about an accomplishment and you've got good energy flowing. Of course, watching an episode of Survivor could do it, as well. Basically, feeling sexy for men usually means they're interested in getting it on.

But for women? Feeling sexy means they're looking good and feeling capable of arousing the desire of men. It's also a feeling accompanied by good energy, but that energy doesn't always get translated into sexual interest. That could be a big mistake - especially when exhaustion is one of the big reasons women give for lack of sexual desire.

The next time you're feeling energetic, you might want to postpone cleaning out the garage and instead try channeling that energy in a sexual direction. Granted, there's a lot of places for that energy to go, but few that will have as great a payoff for you and for your relationship.