One recent sex survey revealed that half of all women are uncomfortable in giving oral sex. There are many reasons for the discomfort. For some, it seems dirty or nasty. There may be concern about the ejaculation or even the taste of the pre-ejaculatory fluid. Many women aren't sure exactly what to do. There may be negative associations with oral sex because of past abuse. Sometimes the pressure from a partner to perform oral sex has created resentment and resistance.
Oral sex is an intimate sexual gift you can give to your partner. You certainly have the right to refuse to engage in any sexual activity you're not comfortable with. But if you're interested in getting past any discomfort you may have, first identify what's causing the discomfort. Then figure out what might help.
You may want to have your partner shower before lovemaking. It helps to be in a position to control how rapidly and deeply you take his penis into your mouth. Let your partner know if you don't want him to ejaculate during oral sex. Read up on oral sex techniques. Ask for your partner's feedback.
Being willing to experiment and to move a little outside your comfort zone to accomodate your partner's sexual wants can bring excitement and greater intimacy to your sexual relationship.
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