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Sunday, April 27, 2008

The Pleasure Principle

How much pleasure do you find in sex? It may be stating the obvious, but if you're not experiencing a lot of pleasure in your sexual encounters with your partner, it's certainly not surprising if you feel little desire. There are many women who have not discovered how to maximize their sexual pleasure. There are many more who have made the discovery but haven't shared it with their partner.

The first step in increasing desire is to make sure that you're having the kind of sex you'll want to return to. That alone may not be enough to keep your sex drive in high gear when work deadlines and grocery lists are competing for your attention, but it will sure make sex more than something to tolerate.

For sex to be pleasurable for both partners, it must be given freely by both and desired by both. So if the sex you're having is more obligatory than pleasurable, neither of you is going to be having much fun. Enlist your partner's help to make sex something you anticipate at least as much as your Friday night pizza.

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