Most people are not into hardcore S & M. Inflicting serious pain or having pain inflicted on you during sex appeals to some but is unthinkable to others. However, there are mild forms of aggression that are much more mainstream and have the potential to bring excitement and intensity into your sex life.
One of the more common types of aggressive sexual behavior involves light biting and sucking. Remember the 'hickey' you tried to hide from your parents when you were in high school? Another fairly common behavior involves some type of spanking. And then there's the variations on bondage. Whips and chains may not be your thing, but having your hands tied to the bedposts with silk scarves could turn out to be a real turn-on.
Themes of dominance and submission are prevalent in the fantasy life of many people even when they are not acted out. There's something about 'taking' or 'being taken' in sex that often fuels the flames of desire. If you're up for incorporating some playful 'force' into your sex life, just be sure that you and your partner are on the same page. It's important to respect each other's comfort level and limits. But stretching your comfort zone just a bit could add some zest to a sex life that's become stale.
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