Does your partner plead, pressure, or pout to get some action in the bedroom? Or maybe just tries to get something going at the worst possible times for you? If so, you've probably wished many times that your partner would put him/herself inside your head and understand how hard it is to get interested in sex when you're exhausted - or how hard it is to suddenly shift gears when you're plowing full steam ahead with your agenda.
But how good are you at getting inside your partner's head? Do you assume that your partner is just a sex fiend with only one thing on the brain? It could be that your partner is wanting closeness or reassurance. When met with a cold shoulder, your partner may feel rejected, undesirable, or unloved.
In addition to talking to your partner about the timing and conditions for sex that are best for you, try initiating sex when the timing and conditions are right for you. That will be a gift for the both of you.
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