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Wednesday, October 31, 2007

When Direct Isn't Best

In several posts I've stressed the importance of being able to talk about sex openly and honestly with your partner. Too often people expect their partner to be mind-readers or just 'know' their specific likes and dislikes which can lead to unsatisfying and frustrating sexual encounters. But the role of non-verbal sexual communication is also valuable.

Part of creating more passion is learning to play with gestures, facial expressions, and body language. It is the art of flirtation and seduction. Couples make a big mistake when they stop flirting with each other when the courtship is over. Flirting makes your partner feel wanted, valued, and desired - and it probably does the same for you when it comes your way.

How do you indirectly express desire to your partner? If your seduction skills have become a bit rusty, try reviving them on your next date night. Gaze into your lover's eyes, let your hand barely graze her thigh, breathe softly into his ear during a slow dance - it's all coming back to you, right?

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