If the sex life with your partner has taken a nose-dive, you may want to take the pulse of your relationship before looking elsewhere for the source of the problem.
Do you and your partner enjoy spending time together? Do you talk to each other? (What time the plumber's coming doesn't count.) Is there an equitable division of household and childcare responsibilities? Are you able to approach differences and conflict with a win-win mindset? Do you laugh often together? Do you make an effort to keep some romance in your relationship?
If the answer to any of these questions is 'no', talk to your partner about what changes you each can make to improve the relationship. If you're unable to make needed changes on your own, don't be afraid to contact a therapist who can help walk you through it. A relationship tune-up may be just the thing to get the sexual pistons firing again.
Thursday, October 4, 2007
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