Missing Kissing

When a couple's sex life falls apart, affectionate touching tends to disappear, as well. That's partly due to the emotional distance in the relationship, but is also a result of the less interested partner fearing that any physical affection will be interpreted as a sexual signal.

Kissing is frequently one of the first things to go as there is something quite intimate about giving your partner more than a passing peck on the lips. Even couples who are still having sex may have stopped kissing passionately. For those who are trying to revive their sexual relationship, discomfort with kissing their partner may feel like an insurmountable barrier.

It's important not to assume that 'kissing discomfort' means your physical relationship is doomed. It just takes time and patience with rebuilding intimacy before comfort with kissing returns. For many couples, it's not the best place to start. But for most couples, it's a great place to finish.