What else besides what you hear and what you see stimulates your sexual interest? I don't want to beat a dead horse here, but paying more attention to the little things you find sexy is an important way to keep your sexuality alive.
How about scents, like your partner's cologne? Perfume manufacturers spend millions coming up with fragrances that stir passion. Just take a look at the perfume ads in magazines - sex just oozes off the page. Have you found the one that does it for you? Maybe it's not perfume at all that gets you going. It could be your partner's natural scent or the smell of freshly washed sheets when you climb into bed.
There's also textures - like the silky shirt that makes you want to run your hands over your partner's body or the way you feel when you wear something soft against your skin. It could be the warmth of the sun on your skin or the sensual feel of water surrounding your body. And don't forget tastes. You may have your own very individual additions to the common list of erotic foods: chocolate, oysters, strawberries, bananas, caviar, etc.
Be on the lookout for sexual signals. They're part of your sexual map - and a resource for both you and your partner.
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