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Sunday, January 20, 2008

Caught by the Stereotype

When a woman finds that she is the only one in her relationship interested in sex, she feels more than unwanted and unloved. She feels like something is terribly wrong. Men just aren't supposed to be the ones who turn down sex.

She may initially try to figure out what's going on with him. Is he depressed? Is it the medications he's taking? Is he stressed out over his job? The questions may become suspicions as she wonders whether her partner is having an affair. After all, he has to be getting it somewhere, doesn't he?

When the questions fail to turn up any answers, many women then assume it has to be about themselves. They fear its the extra pounds they've put on or the wrinkles they've accumulated that are turning a partner off. Or they assume that their partner simply doesn't love them anymore. A man who has little or no desire for sex is just hard for them to conceive.

How a woman responds to her partner's lack of desire is important. I'll talk about that tomorrow.

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