I've posted before on how resentment squashes desire. Recently, I was reminded of how particularly deadly resentment is for someone who already has very low desire.
Unlike the person with high desire, for a lower desire person to get in the mood there has to be a real effort put into switching gears, getting out of a busy mind, letting go of agendas, and becoming receptive to touch. For that person, there's no switch to flip that turns on desire. Now consider how impossible it may feel to get turned on if resentment is part of the picture.
For someone with little sexual interest, resentment destroys any motivation to make the effort to be sexual. In fact, resentment can be such a huge turn-off that even kissing one's partner can be difficult. It's one more reason to be vigilant in keeping resentment out of a relationship.
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