Do you try to avoid sexual thoughts when you're not in a relationship? Maybe thinking about sex when you don't have a partner feels like reading a cookbook when you're on a diet. But enjoying sexual thoughts and fantasies is part of staying sexy. So is doing what makes you feel sexy.
You're more likely to feel sexy when you feel good about yourself. Be sure you're still taking care with your appearance - you're setting goals and going after them - you're socializing - you're laughing and finding joy in living. Nothing is less sexy than a sour disposition.
If you're feeling good about yourself but still feeling sexless, read or watch something erotic. Try your hand at writing your own erotica. Find safe targets for practicing your flirtation skills. Go out to a dance club with friends. Massage your body with the jets in a hot tub. And don't forget the value of pleasuring yourself.
Staying sexy may be a lot tougher when you're on your own, but it's an opportunity to cultivate your sexuality and really claim it. A future partner is sure to appreciate it.
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