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Thursday, January 10, 2008

Single and Sexy

In writing about keeping the drive alive and staying in touch with one's sexuality, I've focused primarily on people in relationships. I'd like to address the sexuality of singles in the next few posts.

Some singles feel blessed when their sex drive shuts down since their solo gratification may leave them feeling somewhat less than satisfied. Others realize that shutting down sexually results in an overall loss of vitality and passion for living. And forget radiating sexual energy to potential partners if the sexual juices are allowed to dry up. So how do you remain a full sexual being without access to sexual expression with a partner?

The challenge may be greater for singles, but the answer to that question is similar to the answer for low desire people in relationships. It starts with claiming one's sexuality independent of a partner and then finding ways to nurture its presence. Over the next couple of days, I'll post on being single and sexy. I'd also be interested in hearing from those who have managed to stay sexually energized without a partner.

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