I don't need to detail all the ways that sex can be destructive and abusive. But what often comes to mind when people think about sexuality's hurtful potential is sexual assault, sexual harrassment, child sexual abuse, child pornography, etc. Unfortunately, sexual wounding can also occur in couple relationships as partners struggle to resolve differences in desire and create a safe environment for physical intimacy.
Sex has incredible potential both to unite and divide. The bonding power of physical touch is basically nullified when serious conflict erupts over the quantity and quality of that touch. The dance of pressure and avoidance can become a defining theme for a relationship, coloring all aspects of a couple's life together. Sadly, couples frequently get stuck in that dance and keep repeating the same steps over and over.
If you're stuck in a destructive sex dance with your partner, it may be time to get some outside help. Healing is needed before sex can become a comfortable and joyful source of connection.
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