I posted yesterday about a woman who was hurt by criticism about her skill as a lover. How do you rate your lovemaking skills? You may not hear much from your partner -which can leave you wondering if you're doing something 'right'. If that's the case, I'd certainly recommend that you start by asking your lover for specific feedback. There are also many resources available - videos as well as books - that provide excellent information on maximizing your partner's pleasure. Videos that provide intimate instruction are often aimed at couples and can be found online or in sex boutiques.
Of course, too much emphasis on getting it 'right' removes you from the direct experience of the moment. So do what you can to improve your confidence as a lover - then relax and enjoy the journey.
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