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Monday, November 5, 2007

Power and Sexiness

I recently read the results of a survey conducted with hundreds of men and women who were asked what traits they considered sexiest in the opposite sex. Though physical appearance was the initial attraction for most of those who responded, power was next on the list.

Most men said that the women they considered sexy were those that were self-confident, financially and emotionally independent, made decisions on their own, and were comfortable with confrontation. Sounds like powerful women, doesn't it?

Most women said that sexy men were those who took charge, were decisive, could not be controlled, were forceful in their opinions, possessed high self-esteem, and had the ability to emotionally connect. Again, pretty powerful men.

The connection is clear. If you want to be sexier, work on building your self-esteem, increasing your independence, and claiming more power.

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