Getting Better

Did you ever think that the more you have sex, the better you'd get at it? That's the way it is with most everything else that you do - why would sex be any different? And the better you get at it, the better it gets.

When we're talking sex, what does getting better actually mean? It means getting better at pleasuring your partner, better at receiving pleasure, feeling less restraint and more freedom, being better able to communicate your needs and wants, experiencing a greater range of sexual expression, being able to utilize different arousal styles, connecting on a more intimate level with your partner - all of which adds up to sex that you're a lot less likely to view as one more task to check off your list. It's hotter, more fun, more comfortable, more soothing - one of the great pleasures of life.

If you're still finding reasons to avoid sex, maybe it's time to work on making it something you won't want to avoid.