Arousal by sensual entrancement involves focusing on your body's responses during sex. Usually someone pursuing this type of arousal closes their eyes and moves their attention inward. They might seem passive or disconnected from their partner. They are often more interested in sameness rather than novelty and are unlikely to be very communicative.
If your arousal is dependent upon an inward focus, you might find it distracting or even annoying when your partner talks during sex, wants to maintain eye contact, or tries to break the routine with suggestions for new ways of being together. The partner's interaction can disrupt your focus and make it more difficult for you to maintain your arousal.
Your partner, on the other hand, may interpret your passivity and inward focus as boredom, lack of interest, or rejection. If your partner's arousal is dependent upon a passionate connection with you, they may feel frustrated and hurt by your seeming lack of involvement.
I'll talk about partner involvement arousal tomorrow - and later get to suggestions for meshing different arousal styles.
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