In partner involvement arousal, the focus is on the other as a means of arousing oneself. For someone pursuing this type of arousal, the romantic connection and the partner's responses are key elements in the sexual interaction. This person tends to be very active and expressive during sex - often wanting lots of communication with their partner. They are often more comfortable in the giving rather than in the receiving role so they are typically viewed as generous and unselfish lovers. However, it is in the giving - and in seeing the partner's response to the giving - that they are building their own arousal.
Sounds like the perfect lover - unless your partner has trouble maintaining their arousal while giving the feedback that you desire. That partner could see you as demanding and controlling rather than giving. Giving what you want to give is very different than giving what your partner wants to receive.
Tomorrow I'll talk about the third arousal style before discussing how to mesh the styles.
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