One last post on Valentine's Day. Along with gift-giving, you may be planning a special celebration with your partner - going out for a romantic dinner, attending a dance, heading out of town for a weekend getaway, or drinking a glass of wine in front of the fireplace.
If you're the lower desire person in your relationship, this is a great occasion for putting some effort into creating an evening of intimacy. Rather than the routine sex that you both usually settle for, this is the time to pull out all the stops. Candles, music, chocolate-covered strawberries, fresh sheets, etc. Your interest and investment in making love will be the best gift you can give your partner.
If you're the higher desire partner, this is not the time to make a big play for a night of hot sex. That will simply feel like more pressure. Your gift is focusing on the emotional intimacy which may be more important to your partner.
Hopefully, both kinds of giving will lead to great Valentine sex.
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